You’ve come to see the power of words—not just the ones spoken to you, but the ones you say to yourself. In a world where words often travel faster than actions, it’s easy to forget their impact. But do we truly listen to what we’re saying? Do we reflect before we speak?
I’ve noticed that the kindest people often carry the heaviest burdens. Perhaps that’s why I can see through the insecurities of others—it’s a skill born from my own experiences and relationships. For a long time, I surrounded myself with people who weren’t happy, myself included. Like them, I relied on distractions to cope with life’s challenges. But now, I understand that masking pain only delays the work of healing.
My family has been a significant part of this journey. Their words and actions often feel at odds with the values they claim to hold, leaving me questioning their sincerity. Yet these contradictions have taught me to trust my own instincts. While their feedback has sometimes felt harsh, the encouragement I’ve received from others reminds me of the progress I’ve made.
It hasn’t been easy to distance myself from negativity, especially when it comes from those closest to me. But choosing to focus on what builds me up rather than what holds me back has been transformative.
Sometimes, I wonder if my happiness is real, or if I’m simply pretending. But I’ve learned that happiness isn’t a constant—it’s a practice. It’s about staying grounded, listening to myself, and growing from every experience, no matter how challenging.